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My husband and I were asked to take the Mass offerings along with our daughters (7 and 9 years old).

Thank you for your time and dedication!

Blessings,

Annabella

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When your family, (you and your daughters) bring up the gifts, your family is representing the people in the parish for that Mass and, to a fuller extent, the members of the whole Church.

After you bring up the gifts to the priest, you should bow out of respect for:

. . . then pass him the unconsecrated unleavened bread and unconsecrated grape wine.

You don't have to say anything to the priest but he will usually say some kind words of appreciation for your participation, or should : )

Ideally, dress attire at Sunday Mass should be the best attire of the week. Most of the time,
it's our only Holy Day of Obligation for that week, where we give thanks back to the Lord and get fed for the coming week with His Body and Blood to assist us in making good, holy choices for that week.

There is no best place to sit or stand. If you know the priest will want your assistance, sitting in a pew near the center aisle where the usher can clearly see you is best.

Hope this helps,

Mike

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13 Creative Ways to Honor Mary at a Catholic Wedding

There are many ways to honor Our Lady during the nuptial Mass.

Clockwise from left: The Wagner, Nalepa, Malloy and Vitale weddings honored Mary with prayer and flowers.

In between choosing color schemes and cake flavors during wedding planning, it’s important for engaged couples to remain steadfast in their devotion and love of the Holy Family, the greatest of all families, as there’s no better role model for marriage.

Many Catholic couples present Marian bouquets to the Blessed Mother on their wedding day as a sign of trust in Mary. But there are many ways to honor Our Lady during the nuptial Mass, as several couples explained to the Register as they recalled their wedding days.

Mari and Trey Wagner

For the first three years of her life, Mari Wagner lived in Colombia, South America. Her family, like most Latin American families, grew up culturally Catholic, but didn’t start living her faith until college, Wagner said.

Wagner remembers her grandma teaching and talking about Mary, she said, recalling Marian icons and statues around her grandmother’s house and how she would teach her the Hail Mary and talk about how Mother Mary could intercede for us.

“I think I truly grew up having a relationship with Mary before I really had a relationship with Jesus,” Wagner said. “She has just been part of my story for as long as I can remember.”

When Wagner’s mother found out she was unexpectedly pregnant with Mari, many of her friends suggested abortion. Instead, she sought out Mother Mary’s comfort and help. She went to their Marian garden and asked Mary for a coral rose — her favorite color — as a clear sign that it was God’s will for her to keep the baby.

No roses had grown in the garden before, but a week later, the day before her mom had to make a decision, she discovered a fully bloomed coral rose right next to the Mary statue.

“Knowing that [story] opened my eyes to just one of the reasons why I have such a close relationship with Mary,” Wagner said. “Mary has always been my mother, and has always been protecting me, and just close to me ever since I was really conceived.”

1. Coral Rose in the Bouquet

Wagner married on March 13, 2021. One way that Wagner chose to honor Mary in her wedding was placing a coral rose in her bouquet as a way to remember the choice her mother made and the constant guidance and protection Mary provides.

2. Rosaries in the Bridesmaid Bouquets

Wagner currently runs a Rosary business, West Coast Catholic. The inspiration came when Wagner and her husband, Trey — who was her boyfriend at the time — were both Fellowship of Catholic University Students (FOCUS) missionaries, and after spending his summer working at a FOCUS team camp in 2018, Trey came back and taught Mari how to make rosaries. They picked out different beads and string, and the very first West Coast Catholic rosary was made. This first Rosary inspired their Sea of Galilee Rosary.

“That first rosary drew me to pray the Rosary more than ever, really,” Wagner said.

“I wasn’t a very avid Rosary prayer. But with the sheer beauty of the beads, the cord and the intentionality behind the way it was made, I was just drawn to prayer through beauty.”

Now, Wagner offers a wide selection of rosaries on her site . At her wedding, each bridesmaid’s bouquet was wrapped with Wagner’s Immaculate Heart Rosary , a soft pink and white beaded rosary inspired by Mary’s Immaculate Heart. In between the colored beads are small, golden beads that point to Mary’s queenship.

3. Praying a Decade of the Rosary Together

Before the wedding Mass, Mari and Trey prayed a decade of the Rosary together. This was a practice they had when they were dating, which they called a “daily dating decade,” in order to pray for their relationship together.

4. Singing the Salve Regina

At their wedding, Mari and Trey decided present a bouquet to Mary while the Salve Regina was sung.

Grace and Frank Vitale

Grace Vitale didn’t know how to pray the Rosary until she met her future husband, Frank, four years ago.

When the two met, Frank told Grace that his dad jokingly said he couldn’t bring a girl home unless she knew how to pray the Rosary. Determined to learn the Rosary, Grace would listen to audio recordings of the Rosary and go on “Rosary walks” with Frank.

“My love for Mary exploded,” Grace said. “I have never felt such comfort in praying for any saint’s intercession. I just love the idea of this perfect mother and this perfect woman who I could model. I had female role models, but none that were the Mother of Christ.”

The Vitales began dating in 2020 and married on June 18, 2022.

5. Sapphires in Her Engagement Ring

Both Grace and Frank’s moms had sapphires in their engagement rings, so Grace wanted the same. Grace said that there is Marian theology associated with sapphires, but Grace also wanted to honor their earthly mothers with her engagement ring.

6. Children’s Flower Procession and Presenting the Bouquet

Rather than just a few flower girls, Grace had an entire children’s flower procession. They had flowers ready in the back of the church, and any child in the church who wanted to could pick a flower and walk down the aisle together. The children then put all of the flowers in one vase, which formed the bouquet that Grace and Frank presented to Mary during their nuptial Mass.

“I hope to have kids someday, and honoring Mary right from the beginning with the children, I just loved the idea of a childlike faith,” Grace said. “I loved honoring our mothers, in hopes of having that connection of a childlike faith, and then going to our Mother, for help and guidance throughout our marriage.”

7. Designing Holy Family Holy Cards

As a gift to her guests, Grace designed Holy Family holy cards and placed them at each table at the reception. Grace, an avid designer and artist, has an Instagram account, The Cradle Catholic , which features all of her art and creations. She sells a variety of items, including sweatshirts and stickers, and often posts reels debunking many misconceptions about Mary and Catholicism.

8. Wearing a Miraculous Medal and White Roses

Besides earrings, the only jewelry Grace wore was a simple Miraculous Medal. Her bouquet was also entirely made up of white roses as one more way to honor Mary.

Leah and Patrick Nalepa

Even though Leah and Patrick Nalepa both attended college together, they never went on a date.

Months after reconnecting at a friend’s wedding, Patrick asked Leah on a date. They dated long distance for a few years and married on Jan. 4, 2020.

The Nalepas’ wedding was at Old St. Mary’s parish in Detroit — the same church Leah’s parents were married. Many of their bridesmaids and groomsmen were not Catholic, so in order to expose them to the faith in a non-pushy way, the couple invited the bridal party to arrive at the church one hour early for a time of prayer and adoration, Leah said.

9. Presenting a Marian Bouquet With Parents

When the Nalepas presented their bouquet to Mary, they decided to present it together with their parents.

“We placed the bouquet in front of her, and while we were doing that, we had our parents both come up behind each of us and say a prayer with us,” Leah said. “They put their hands on our shoulders, and we all prayed together as a newly married couple and the new family, and, quite frankly, under the mantle of Our Mother.”

Emily and Tim Malloy

Although Emily Malloy had every intention of attending law school, she met her husband, Tim, in college, and fell in love. He proposed to her after her last final.

She put law school on hold as Tim was preparing to enter the Army, but after an injury, it became clear he probably wouldn’t make it past officer-candidate school.

In this pause, the Lord broke in, Emily said. She decided to apply for an apprentice job at a local flower shop and quickly discovered her deep passion and appreciation for flowers. Although the only task she had permission to do was sweep the shop floor as an apprentice, she later became the manager and floral designer at the shop.

Now, Emily is the food and floral editor for “ Theology of Home ” and has been married to her husband for 12 years. The Malloys have four children.

10. Kneeling at the Feet of Mary

On April 30, 2010, Emily and Tim knelt at the feet of Mary, beseeching and imploring the Blessed Mother for her help and love, Emily recalled. As they presented their bouquet to Mary, they did so to the Salve Regina , rather than the traditional “Ave Maria.”

“Flowers accompany us throughout all our lives, and in a special way during weddings,” Malloy said. “There’s something very special about that outward offering and gift [to Mary]. It’s great to be intentional in the manner in which it’s done.”

11. Praying With the Bride

“There was a lot of emotion tied up in the day, and I was really afraid that I was just going to be a puddle,” Emily said.

Emily remembers turning to one of her bridesmaids before the ceremony and telling her about her nervousness. Her friend gathered the rest of the bridesmaids, and they all prayed with Emily together.

“They all got up and ran and put their hands on me and prayed. It was such a special Holy Spirit-driven moment,” Emily said. “It was just so special and one of my favorite moments.”

12. Sewing Miraculous Medal Into the Wedding Dress

Although Emily did not do this herself, she had the idea of sewing a Miraculous Medal into her wedding dress after she broke down her own dress and turned it into a baptismal gown for her children and had a Marian image embroidered onto the gown, she said.

“It’s just a really special, subtle way of having Our Lady close to you,” she said.

13. Using Marian Flowers

Now, as a floral editor, Emily has learned all different kinds of Marian flowers that could be used in a wedding, depending on the season. Lily of the valley and tulips work well in spring; roses, foxglove, honeysuckles and peonies are perfect for summertime; and the star of Bethlehem and amarilla pair well with winter, she explained.

“There’s so much that can be divinely inspired through the process of being with flowers,” Emily said. “The Lord speaks to us through that. He created us to tend the garden; that was our job. The ability to connect with him in nature and in the garden shows this real love story. I can’t imagine my life without flowers.”

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Below is the text of the three options for the Prayer Over the Offerings that is said during a Catholic wedding within Mass. To see where the prayer occurs in a Catholic wedding mass, check the .

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Receive, we pray, 0 Lord,
the offering made on the occasion
of this sealing of the sacred bond of Marriage,
and, just as your goodness is its origin,
may your providence guide its course.
Through Christ our Lord.

Receive in your kindness, Lord,
the offerings we bring in gladness before you,
and in your fatherly love
watch over those you have joined in a sacramental covenant.
Through Christ our Lord.

Show favor to our supplications, 0 Lord,
and receive with a kindly countenance
the oblations we offer for these your servants,
joined now in a holy covenant,
that through these mysteries
they may be strengthened in love for one another and for you.
Through Christ our Lord.

A step-by-step walk through the complete order of the Catholic wedding Mass.

A step-by-step walk through the complete order of a Catholic wedding outside of Mass.

A step-by-step walk through the complete order of a wedding between a Catholic and someone who has not been baptized as a Christian.

As you begin planning your wedding, one of the first things you will discuss with the priest or deacon at your parish is which form of the you will use during your wedding. Here are the three basic options.

Responsorial Psalms

The communion hymn ideas.

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Best Catholic Wedding Songs For Every Part Of A Wedding

Before selecting songs for a Catholic wedding ceremony, it’s crucial to consult with the priest and the church venue for guidance on specific rules and regulations. While there’s no official list of Catholic wedding songs, it’s essential that chosen songs are prayerful and align with the solemnity of the occasion. Music plays a vital role in enhancing the worship experience and celebrating the sacrament. In this article, we’ll discuss the significance of music in Catholic weddings and offer guidance on selecting appropriate songs for each key moment of the ceremony.

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Catholic Wedding Processional Songs

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These are traditional songs popular for walking down the aisle at Catholic weddings. They work with various instruments, from the piano, and organ to string instruments.

Arioso, Johann Sebastian Bach A popular favorite when it comes to Catholic church wedding songs, you can’t go wrong with any work from J.S. Bach. And Arioso stands out as one of the world’s most magnificent melodies.
Panis Angelicus, Franco Corelli Drawn from the series of the hymn “Sacrissolemniis”, Panis Angelicus is a great addition to Catholic wedding bridal processional songs.
This is the Day, Scott Wesley Brown A popular classic wedding song, “This is the Day” has remained relevant to Catholic church-approved wedding songs from the 1970s until today.
Come to Thou Fount of Every Blessing, Robert Robinson A song with multiple versions, it is at its best when rendered by a simple soloist. A popular choice for Catholic wedding processional songs , it can draw a few tears every time.
In Christ Alone, Keith Getty A popular modern Christian song with an Irish melody, you would be lucky to get this approved by your music minister. This out-of-the-box option is a great choice for walking down the aisle, especially if you have a talented violinist.

Choose Psalms that harmonize with the liturgical season and the couple’s faith journey. Consult the parish music director for suggestions that align with the ceremony’s solemnity and theme. Select Psalms reflecting the couple’s spiritual journey. Personalize by incorporating favorite verses or those significant to their relationship.

Example Psalms:

Psalm 23 – “The Lord is my shepherd…”
Psalm 103 – “Bless the Lord, O my soul…”
Psalm 118 – “Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good…”
Amazing Grace, by Traditional A timeless hymn known for its powerful message of redemption and grace, perfect for solemn moments of reflection during a communion hymn.
How Great Thou Art, by Carrie Underwood Carrie Underwood’s rendition of this classic hymn beautifully captures the awe and reverence of God’s greatness, making it a fitting choice for worship during communion.
In Christ Alone, by Keith & Kristyn Getty This contemporary Christian hymn highlights the centrality of Christ’s sacrifice and resurrection, offering a profound expression of faith and trust in Him during the communion service.
Here I Am, Lord, by Dan Schutte With its heartfelt lyrics and uplifting melody, “Here I Am, Lord” invites worshippers to respond to God’s call and offer themselves in service, making it an ideal choice for communion reflection.
Blessed Assurance, by Alan Jackson Alan Jackson’s rendition of this beloved hymn exudes a sense of assurance and peace in God’s promises, creating a comforting atmosphere during the communion hymn.

When choosing songs for the communion hymn, consider the solemnity and reverence of the occasion. Opt for melodies with meaningful lyrics that reflect the significance of communion and enhance the spiritual atmosphere. It’s also helpful to select songs familiar to your congregation, ensuring everyone can participate and connect deeply during this sacred moment

Catholic Wedding Recessional Songs

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Below is a list of Catholic recessional songs you can suggest to the music minister or priest. Amazing songs that are popular in the Catholic community.

Ode to Joy, L. Beethoven An easily recognizable tune, this classic has religious lyrics and flexible instrumentation.
La Rejouissance, Handel This song has the right jubilant tempo for a wedding recessional. The tune works best played by instrumentalists.
This is the Day (That the Lord Has Made), M. Joncas Choosing from the many different versions of this song, this one gives the right celebratory feel and tempo to the close of the service.
Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing, Chris Rice The upbeat version of this song works best for a recessional as opposed to the soft, solemn version which can be used for communion.
O God Beyond All Praising, Gustav Holst A huge statement song for a recessional, it will sound amazing if performed by a choir or at least a group of singers.

Traditional Catholic Wedding Hymns

Traditional hymns hold a special place in Catholic weddings, connecting couples to a rich heritage of faith and devotion. Here are some beloved traditional Catholic wedding hymns:

Joyful, Joyful, We Adore Thee A vibrant and uplifting hymn that expresses joy and gratitude for God’s love and blessings.
Here I Am, Lord A song that signifies a readiness to respond to God’s call and dedicate one’s life to serving Him.
Ave Maria A timeless and reverent hymn dedicated to the Virgin Mary, seeking her intercession and honor.
Love Divine, All Loves Excelling Celebrates the surpassing love of God and invokes His blessings upon the couple’s journey of love and commitment.
Panis Angelicus A Eucharistic hymn that reflects on the sacred presence of Christ in the Eucharist, invoking His grace upon the couple’s union.
Be Thou My Vision A prayerful hymn that seeks God’s guidance and wisdom, asking Him to be the center of the couple’s lives and their vision for the future.
Holy, Holy, Holy A hymn that glorifies the Holy Trinity, inviting reverence and awe in the presence of God’s majesty and holiness.
Praise, My Soul, the King of Heaven A hymn of praise and adoration for God’s greatness and His steadfast love, acknowledging His reign over all creation.
Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring A beautiful hymn that expresses the desire for Jesus’ presence and joy to fill the couple’s hearts and their journey together.
All Creatures of Our God and King A hymn that praises God’s creation and invites all creatures to join in worship and thanksgiving for His goodness.

Popular Catholic Wedding Ceremony Songs

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Below are popular Catholic wedding songs with just the right tempo for Catholic wedding mass songs. Beautiful music that works well as background music to the couple’s wedding vows .

God is Able, Hillsong While this song is a more contemporary option than the traditional hymn, it’s still a great choice for wedding mass songs. It is best sung accompanied by a guitar or piano.
For the Beauty of the Earth, Kocher A beautiful song and a great choice for a wedding ceremony song. Best played by a group or solo instrument such as a piano.
Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring, J.S. Bach This song is flexible with instrumentation. It is also a reflective and calm melody that can be sung whole or cut.
Ave Maria, Schubert This popular classic has been found on countless lists of traditional Catholic wedding songs. Best sung by a soloist accompanied by a piano or other solo instrument.
The Prayer, Josh Groban/Charlotte Church This beautiful piece of music is best played on a piano if only the instrumental. Otherwise, a duo would be perfect.

Modern Catholic Wedding Songs for the Ceremony

Planning a modern Catholic wedding ceremony? Here’s a playlist featuring contemporary songs that can beautifully complement the sacred moments of your special day:

The Prayer, Celine Dion, and Andrea Bocelli A soul-stirring duet to foster unity and reflection during the ceremony.
Ave Maria, Beyonce Beyoncé’s rendition infuses new life into the timeless hymn while respecting tradition.
All of Me, John Legend A tender love ballad, perfect for vows or a symbolic unity ceremony.
How Beautiful, Twila Paris Contemporary Christian song celebrating the profound beauty of love and devotion.
I Will Be Here, Steven Curtis Chapman A poignant pledge of enduring love, fitting seamlessly into the heart of a Catholic wedding ceremony.

When it comes to the Catholic Mass, understanding the role of music is crucial for a seamless ceremony. Here’s a breakdown:

The Processional This marks the beginning of the Mass. Choose an uplifting piece that reflects the anticipation and joy of the moment.
Responsorial Psalm During this liturgical moment, a psalm is sung or recited. Opt for a psalm or musical setting that aligns with your wedding’s theme.
Offertory and Communion These segments offer opportunities for reflection and unity. Select songs that emphasize love, sharing, and spiritual connection.
Recessional The recessional signifies the end of the Mass and the start of your married life. Choose an upbeat and celebratory tune that captures your joy and readiness for the journey ahead.

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Selecting the perfect music for a Catholic wedding involves considering the guidelines and requirements set by the Church. From the entrance procession to the nuptial blessing and the reverencing of the Eucharist, here are the key moments to consider when choosing your Catholic wedding songs:

Guidelines and Requirements for Catholic Wedding Music : Familiarize yourself with the guidelines set by your parish or diocese regarding the types of music allowed in the ceremony.
Selecting Hymns for the Entrance Procession: Choosing hymns that reflect the sacredness of the occasion and set a joyful tone for the ceremony.
Reflecting on the Liturgy of the Word: Responsorial Psalms and Gospel Acclamations: Selecting psalms and acclamations that enhance the proclamation of the Word and invite the congregation to participate.
Options for the Presentation of the Gifts and Preparation of the Altar: Considering songs that express gratitude and reverence during the offering of the gifts and the preparation of the altar.
Celebrating the Sacrament of Marriage – Song Choices for the Nuptial Blessing and Exchange of Rings: Choosing songs that reflect the sacramental nature of marriage, emphasizing the couple’s commitment and the blessing of their union.
Reverencing the Eucharist – Songs for the Offertory and Communion: Selecting songs that evoke reverence and gratitude during the presentation of the gifts and the reception of the Eucharist.

Frequently Asked Questions

How to choose catholic wedding mass songs.

Several factors are important to consider when choosing the best Catholic wedding songs. To stick to the Catholic church’s rules and requirements, these songs must adhere to the following.

Be prayerful Seeing as a Catholic liturgy, including those for a wedding is to sanctify the worshippers, and give glory to God; any chosen wedding music would have to reflect the same. This is why popular secular music, is often not permitted; and even modern Catholic songs would have to be pre-approved.
Be accessible It has to be music that your guests and audience will be able to sing along to. Catholic liturgy expects that everyone in the assembly participates instead of watching passively from the sidelines.
Be beautiful The church calls for the chosen music to be beautiful as beauty is a window into the divine. While this is a subjective factor, any tried and trusted music wholly accepted by numerous congregations should pass as beautiful.

Whatever your heart is set on for your wedding where music is concerned. Whether you are searching for wedding entrance songs, songs for the recessional, or even Catholic wedding songs for the ceremony. This hopefully has given you a good starting point for making your musical selection for your big day. Be sure to try to find tried and true classic or traditional options to increase the chances of getting approval.

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The Preparation of the Gifts and the Altar, Part II

This post continues the examination of the various ways in which the traditional practice of the Roman Rite informs the celebration of Mass according to the Novus Ordo . In the last entry, we saw how “traditional practices of the Roman Rite,” mentioned in no. 42 of the General Instruction of the Roman Missal (GIRM), added context and informed some unanswered questions surrounding the preparation of the gifts and the altar.

If the faithful are to present the gifts of bread and wine (GIRM, 73, 140; Order for Mass , 22), the deacon, who has been at the altar preparing it and the gifts, may remain at the right side of the altar until such faithful are in place, or he may return to his seat by the priest to wait for them to be ready. When the faithful are ready to present the gifts of bread, wine, and even monetary contributions from the collection plates, the celebrant and the deacon, or even the deacon alone, joined by one or more servers “go to the appropriate place” designated to receive the gifts (GIRM, 73). That place may be at the entrance to the sanctuary, at the chair (as is often the case in the Mass celebrated by a bishop), or at the altar itself. A master of ceremonies or a server may accompany the faithful from their places and back, generally walking to their left.

The gifts are received individually by the celebrant and handed to the deacon who stands on the celebrant’s right. The deacon in turn may hand the gifts to waiting servers. The celebrant may acknowledge those who presented the gifts with a bow of the head. Those who presented gifts would bow to the celebrant before departing. When all the gifts have been presented, the celebrant should have nothing in his hands. If standing before the altar and facing the people, the celebrant turns to his right with hands joined and makes his way to the altar, bowing to the altar upon arriving there (See Peter Elliot, Ceremonies of the Modern Roman Rite , Ignatius Press, 102). All who assisted the celebrant likewise bow to the altar if they happen to pass in front of it.

At the altar, the deacon, who is standing to the celebrant’s right, places the paten with the host or hosts in the priest’s hands. The priest holds the paten in both hands over the corporal slightly elevated, and says the prayers. He then places the paten at the center of the front portion of the corporal (Elliott, Ceremonies , p. 102).

At the right side of the altar, the deacon begins to prepare the chalice. First, holding the chalice on the altar itself by its node in his left hand (and not away from the altar or above the altar), he holds the fingers of his right hand together and lowers the purificator resting on top of the chalice into the bottom of the cup and wipes the interior of the cup of the chalice. Then he drapes the purificator over the thumb of his left hand at the node of the chalice so that the folded purificator falls over his thumb. With his right hand, he takes the cruet of wine presented him by the server (who holds it in his right hand with the handle facing out) and pours a portion of the wine into the chalice. The deacon wipes the mouth of the cruet on the purificator and returns it to the server. In the meantime, the server has placed the cruet of water in his right hand from this left hand. The server receives the cruet of wine in his left hand and offers the cruet of water, with handle facing out, with his right hand. The deacon does not make the sign of the cross over the cruet of water (neither does the priest, if he prepares the chalice in the absence of a deacon). The deacon takes the cruet of water and adds a little water (a few drops) to the wine, wipes the mouth of the cruet on the purificator and returns the cruet to the server. The server bows to the deacon and returns to the credence table with the two cruets. At no point is either cruet placed on the altar. Each cruet is held either by the server or the deacon (or celebrant) at all times.

The deacon then takes the interior of the folded purificator and wraps it around the index finger of his right hand at its center, holding it there with the thumb of his right hand, and wipes the drops of wine or water from the interior of the cup of the chalice. He refolds the purificator and places it next to the corporal along its length. Taking the chalice in both hands, with the right hand at the node and the left hand at the base, the deacon hands it to the priest. The celebrant raises it slightly, with his right hand at the node and his left hand at its base, with the base of the chalice a hand’s breadth above the corporal. The celebrant says the prayer regarding the wine. He then places the chalice down on the corporal, at the center of the back portion of the corporal. The deacon covers it with the pall using his right hand, his left hand resting on his chest. Meanwhile the celebrant places his left hand on the base of the chalice to prevent any accident. His right hand rests on the altar outside the corporal. (See Elliott , Ceremonies ,103; A. Mutel and P. Freeman , Cérémonial de la Sainte Messe , Artège,112-114.)

If there is no deacon, the celebrant prepares the chalice in the same way, standing at the right hand side of the altar. Having completed the preparation of the chalice, he may place it closer to the corporal with his left hand. Holding the purificator with his joined hands, he returns to the center of the altar, puts the purificator down, the folded edge closest to him, with its length along the corporal. Then, still standing at the center, he reaches for the chalice at its node with his right hand, and holds it over the corporal with the left hand at its base as indicated above. (See Mutel and Freeman, Cérémonial , 115)

The celebrant steps back slightly and bows deeply with hands joined to say the prayer With humble spirit (Order for Mass, 26). Traditionally, the celebrant rests the index and third fingers of his joined hands on the edge of the altar, with the remaining fingers of his joined hands touching the edge of the altar (See Mutel and Freeman , Cérémonial, 114). Rising, he turns to his right and goes to the right side of the altar with hands joined. There a server holds a basin in his left and and cruet or pitcher in his right hand with which to wash the celebrant’s hands. A towel or finger towel is draped on the server’s left arm. The deacon may take the towel from the server, open it, and hold it in both hands at its two corners in order to present it to the priest. The priest may take it from him, wipe his hands and return it to the deacon, who then folds it and places it on the left arm of the server. The server bows to the celebrant and returns to the credence table. The deacon may now stand at the priest’s left in order to turn the pages of the missal, or he may remain at his right for the entire Eucharistic Prayer. In this case, a master of ceremonies or the priest himself will turn the pages of the missal.

The celebrant, with hands joined, turns to his left and returns to the center of the altar. There he extends and joins his hands as he says, Pray brethren (brothers and sisters), while looking at the people (If he is facing liturgical east, he turns on his right to say, Pray brethren . The deacon standing at his right does not turn around but remains facing the altar. After the people have answered, the priest turns again to his right, completing the circle to face the altar.) Unless the deacon or a master of ceremonies does so, the celebrant then turns the pages of the missal to the prayer over the gifts with his left hand, his right hand resting on the altar outside the corporal. He says the prayer of the gifts with hands outstretched. He joins his hands at the concluding formula, “through Christ our Lord.”

Then begins the Eucharistic Prayer, the heart of the Liturgy of the Eucharist. The next post will treat the various postures and gestures of the celebrant, as well as those of the various others ministers during this portion of Mass. In the fullest form of the celebration of the Eucharistic Prayer, a complex series of movements and gestures accompanies the words of this great prayer of praise and thanksgiving.

This is the tenth part of an ongoing series for Adoremus by Monsignor Caron on “Liturgical Traditions,” one that situates the Novus Ordo rites amidst the received liturgical observances, thereby helping us to understand today’s rites in their proper “hermeneutic of reform.” Read the previous parts of the “Liturgical Traditions” series by clicking here .

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Guide to the Best Catholic Wedding Songs for your Ceremony

The gown, flowers, photographer, and reception — each an exciting part of your overall wedding day. However, first and foremost is the service, especially if you are planning a Catholic wedding mass. One part of the service that everyone will hear are the wedding songs that you select, which is what we’re discussing in today’s article!

Just as weekly Sunday mass has a specific order of service, thematic scripture readings, and music, a Catholic wedding ceremony also has a required structure, called the “liturgy.”

Any wedding songs or music must be approved by the priest or music director of the church. You may have your heart set on a certain #1 billboard hit single, but unless it is approved by the priest, it may not be allowed for your ceremony.

Note: This post is sponsored by MyWeddingSongs.com

Bride walking up to church with father before ceremony

And to add more complexity to the situation, Catholic wedding songs must be religious in nature . However, the interpretation of that varies from parish to parish. Some instrumental pieces may be allowed that are not necessarily considered religious, for example, Canon in D by Johann Pachelbel.

What about a Playlist that’s already done for me?

Recessional, how to choose catholic wedding music.

When meeting with your priest, you’ll want to discuss ideas for a theme as well as scripture readings that fit your new life together as a couple. Once these essentials are chosen, the music can fit into a framework of relevant hymns and instrumental religious music.

If there is a music director at the church, they can also assist with song lists and suggestions that work well.

Live Instruments

Another very important aspect of the music is the instrumentation. Will you have a cantor to lead the hymns and an organist for the service? Or how about a string quartet, guitarist, harpist, or wind instruments?

The type of instruments and number of musicians are factors to be considered with each song choice. Make sure the musicians hired have an understanding of a Catholic service and can lead the hymns if necessary. Most professional musicians will have played many types of wedding ceremonies, including Catholic ones.

Once the instrumentation is decided, ask for suggestions and discuss musical selections with the musicians. Most will have a wide range of song choices appropriate for various occasions. Note that a song originally for a rock band will sound very different played by a solo violin. Some music translates very well when played by different instrumentation from the original version, and some does not . Your musicians can guide you in this area.

Songs from Mass

Think about songs that you’ve heard during mass that speak to one or both of you. Is there a tune that you love to listen to or sing? Many of the musical selections will be sung by the congregation throughout the service, so it is best to choose hymns that are familiar to at least some of the guests attending the wedding.

Glad you asked! There are many online resources that help with wedding song ideas. One resource that we like with both classic and contemporary examples is myweddingsongs.com , which lists playlists as well as audio samples.

We spoke directly with the owner of MyWeddingSongs to get his advice on Catholic wedding songs. Here’s what Matt had to say:

“When planning your Catholic wedding songs, first and foremost, know how the music will be played or performed. You must work with your Priest to know the guidelines of your church. Second, typically the church can provide the standard wedding songs. You will need to ask if there are any additional fees for musicians. In most cases, the song meaning and lyrics decide if a song can be played in a Catholic wedding. Songs like Beyonce’s Amazing Grace and Jeff Buckley’s Hallelujah fit perfect. If you are looking for unique songs. peruse New Age music. I love songs by Enya and in particular Joy by George Winston. Have a discussion with your Priest and know your Church’s rules and music capabilities.” — Matt Campbell, Owner of MyWeddingSongs.com

Music is interspersed throughout the Catholic wedding liturgy. In the next section you’ll see exactly how many songs must be chosen and where they correspond within the liturgy.

bride and groom kneeling during wedding ceremony

Order of Catholic Wedding Mass

A Catholic wedding mass can either include or exclude the Eucharist (or communion). The order is slightly different depending on which type you choose. Those sections listed in bold are for a ceremony with communion.

The Entrance Rite
Processional: Entrance of the clergy and bridal party

Music for the processional should be a medium tempo, with a stately feel. It is the announcement to the congregation to be ready for the ceremony. Note that the wedding marches by Wagner and Mendelssohn are not considered appropriate for a Catholic ceremony as their roots are from the theatre.

Not to worry as there are many other classical, religious, and contemporary alternatives that are acceptable.

(Places with a * indicate where music is played and/or sung)

Gloria (*Glory to God in the Highest…)

3. Gathering Song* (optional) 4. Opening Prayer 5. Liturgy of the Word 6. First Reading 7. Responsorial Psalm (*check with the priest, they may choose this for you) 8. Second Reading 9. Gospel Acclamation (*Alleluia) 10. Gospel 11. Homily 12. Celebration of Matrimony 13. Address and Statement of Intentions 14. Exchange of Consent (marriage vows) 15. Blessing and Giving of Rings 16. Profession of Faith 17. The Universal Prayer 18. (The Lord’s Prayer-said or sung is here without the Eucharist)

Liturgy of the Eucharist

19. Presentation and Preparation of Gifts (*Offertory Song) 20. Eucharistic Prayer 21. Sanctus* (*Holy, Holy) 22. Memorial Acclamation 23. Great Amen

Communion Rite

24. The Lord’s Prayer 25. Nuptial Blessing 26. Sign of Peace 27. Lamb of God* 28. Communion* 29. Reflection Song* (optional) 30. Concluding Rite/Conclusion 31. Blessing 32. Dismissal

Recessional : clergy and bridal party recess down the aisle to a lively and upbeat tune, a joyful ending to a thoughtful and serious ceremony.

A Catholic ceremony without the Eucharist leaves out the areas in bold — Gloria, Liturgy of the Eucharist, and Communion Rite.

Bride and groom at alter singing with guests

Best Songs for a Catholic Wedding

There are many lovely choices that will provide the proper aesthetic, along with a reflective, prayerful atmosphere for your Catholic wedding ceremony. Let’s take a look at a few below:

Processional

These selections are very traditional, but work well for many different instruments. Organ, piano, string solo or group can all make these sound beautiful and are the appropriate tempo for those walking down the aisle.

Arioso, J.S. Bach
Panis Angelicus, C. Franck
Trumpet Tune, H. Purcell
Trumpet Voluntary, J. Clarke

A classic from early contemporary Christian music of the 1970’s, This is the Day (Wedding Song), by Scott Wesley Brown, still remains relevant to any Catholic wedding service today.

Gathering Song (optional)

1) God is Able, Hillsong

Best with a singer and instrument, either piano or guitar. A more contemporary option to a typical hymn choice.

2) For the Beauty of the Earth, Kocher.

This song works well for a solo instrument, piano, or group.

Unity Candle (optional)

1) Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring, J.S. Bach

A calm, reflective song that can easily be cut or extended in length as needed, also with flexible instrumentation.

2) Ave Maria, Schubert

A beautiful song for singer and piano, or with a solo instrument.

3) The Prayer, Josh Groban/Charlotte Church

Best with at least a duo, or piano if only instrumental version.

Presentation of Gifts

1) Here I Am Lord, J. Talbot

A classic for the Presentation, will be well-recognized by the congregation.

2 ) One Bread, One Body, J. Foley

A very recognizable tune, especially if you will not have a cantor, a solo instrument can lead it.

1) As the Deer, M. Nystrom

A lovely melody that is repetitive and will get everyone singing after a few repeats.

2) Amazing Grace

A classic that everyone will recognize.

3) On Eagle’s Wings, Joncas

Also a time-honored choice for communion.

Reflection Song (optional)

1) Air from Suite in D (Air on the G String), J.S. Bach

Beautiful tune for instrumentalists, especially string players, to play.

2) Be Thou My Vision

A lovely song that turns the heartstrings every time.

1) Ode to Joy, L. Beethoven

A very recognizable tune for everyone, and the instrumentation is completely flexible.

2) La Rejouissance, Handel

Perhaps a little less well-known, but has a very jubilant sound and works best with instrumentalists.

3) This is the Day (That the Lord Has Made), M. Joncas

There are several versions with this same text, this one is very joyful sounding and fits with the celebratory feel at the end of the service.

Which Catholic Wedding Songs will you Choose?

Hopefully you now have a good starting point from which to find more musical ideas to make your ceremony personal and memorable. Because a Catholic wedding ceremony is steeped in centuries of tradition, you may discover that the most traditional songs fit in best with all the other formal aspects of the liturgy.

Also, don’t forget to check out MyWeddingSongs.com ! They are one of the best online resources for wedding playlists.

Most of all, enjoy the process. Choose music that touches you as a couple and it will be a memorable moment for the beginning of your life together.

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What to Include in a Catholic Wedding Program

Your non-Catholic guests will thank you.

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In This Article

A Catholic wedding is a beautiful, sacred ceremony that many Catholics look forward to their entire lives. In Catholicism, marriage is one of seven holy sacraments, during which God’s love is present to the couple and also flows through them to their family and community.

Considering God is the guest of honor, a Catholic wedding is a meticulously planned event. Catholic weddings typically take place within a wedding mass, which are filled with long-standing rituals and traditions, prayers, and songs .

If not all your guests are familiar with Catholic weddings, the religious proceedings can be quite confusing. A Catholic wedding program is helpful to hand out to your guests before they take their seats to help them follow along.

"Friends and family gather on your wedding day to celebrate you as a couple and to witness your sacrament of marriage, and a wedding program helps orient your guests to the space, gives them a quick guide for the next hour or so, and can also help familiarize them with the beauty of the Catholic Mass," says Chloe Langr, author of Created for Love: Reflections for the Catholic Bride-to-Be .

Meet the Expert

Chloe Langr is the author of three books, including Created for Love: Reflections for the Catholic Bride-to-Be . For the past five years, she's hosted the Letters to Women Podcast , where she speaks with different Catholic women to learn about their stories and the way their Catholic faith impacts their daily life.

"A wedding program offers a beautiful chance to share about your Catholic faith with those you love. Simple things like a quick explanation of what is going on at different parts of the ceremony and how to enter into the prayer of the Mass alongside you as a couple is a way to welcome your guests into the celebration of your day in an intentional way."

While your priest and/or church will do all the actual ceremony planning, it’s up to the couple to provide Catholic wedding programs for their guests. Ahead, we have a detailed list of everything you need to include in your Catholic wedding program to make sure your guests can feel comfortable following along.

Here's the order of a Catholic wedding mass to include in your program:

Prelude music is usually played or sung about 15 minutes before the start of your ceremony as your guests are getting to their seats.

The priest and groom enter first from the side of the venue and take their place at the front of the church, followed by the wedding party. The bride, escorted by her father, enters last.

Greeting and Opening Prayer

The priest will begin the mass by saying a few words about the couple and the sacrament of marriage, and will finish with an opening prayer.

Liturgy of the Word

This section of the ceremony contains:

The First Reading
Responsorial Psalm
Second Reading
Gospel Acclamation

The readings, psalm, and gospel can be found in the missal, a liturgical book containing all instructions and texts necessary to follow along during mass. Including page numbers in your wedding program gives guests the opportunity to join in the prayers and songs.

The Rite of Marriage

This part of the ceremony includes the exchange of vows, the blessing and exchange of rings , and prayers of the faithful, which is a list of intentions the priest asks the church guests to pray over.

Liturgy of the Eucharist

This part of the wedding ceremony includes:

Presentation of the Gifts
Eucharistic Prayer
The Lord's Prayer
Nuptial Blessing
Sign of Peace

This is the part of the ceremony that is the most similar to a traditional Sunday mass. For those new to the Catholic church, it would be helpful to include an explanation of the Eucharist in your wedding program.

"The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops issued a brief explanation of the Eucharist for non-Christians and non-Catholics that you can include in your program," says Langr. "You could invite your guests who aren't receiving the Eucharist to come up and receive a blessing, or to stay in their pew and pray for your new marriage."

Final Blessing

After communion, the priest will end the mass with a final prayer, blessing the new union and all who were gathered to witness this couple experience the sacrament of holy matrimony.

Recessional

The newlyweds will exit the altar back down the aisle, followed by their wedding party. A cocktail hour or reception usually follows, so we suggest including those details on the wedding program.

"The last page or section of your wedding program is the perfect place to share logistical details for the reception," says Langr. "A simple line sharing the time and address of the venue is helpful for guests who may have left their wedding invite at home hanging on their fridge."

Catholic Wedding Program Example/Template

Front of program.

Welcome to the wedding ceremony of [Name] and [Name]. [Date] [Name of Church] [City, State]

PRELUDE Instrumental

PROCESSIONAL "Ave Maria” Please stand as the bride enters.

GREETING AND OPENING PRAYER

LITURGY OF THE WORD The First Reading Genesis 1:26-28, 31 Read by [Name, Relation] Responsorial Psalm "Taste and see the goodness of the Lord.” Second Reading Hebrews 1 Corinthians 12:31-13:8a Read by [Name, Relation] Gospel Acclamation "Alleluia" Homily

THE RITE OF MARRIAGE Exchange of Vows Blessing and Exchange of Rings Prayers of the Faithful Read by [Name, Relation]

LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST Presentation of the Gifts "Make Me a Channel of Your Peace” [Names] Eucharistic Prayer The Lord's Prayer Nuptial Blessing Sign of Peace Communion "On Eagle's Wings"

FINAL BLESSING

RECESSIONAL "This is the Day (That the Lord Has Made)”

Back of Program

WEDDING PARTY Officiant: [Name] Parents of the Bride: [Names] Parents of the Groom: [Names] Maid of Honor: [Name] Bridesmaids: [Names] Best Man: [Name] Groomsmen: [Names] Ring Bearer: [Name] Flower Girl: [Name] Ushers: [Names]

THANK YOU We are so blessed to celebrate our union in the presence of our closest family and friends. Thank you for being here with us today and every day. With love, [Names]

How to Personalize Your Catholic Wedding Program

In addition to the ceremony order , you also want to include your names, the date of your wedding, and the name of the church that you're getting married at on the front of the wedding program. If the church has some significance, like one of you was baptized in the same church or you attended mass here as a couple, you can share that story to help your guests get to know you better.

"You could include a personal touch like a prayer that you've prayed together, or a Scripture passage or quote from a saint that is important to your relationship," says Langr. "You could also use the space to pay tribute to loved ones who have gone before you."

Any stationery designer or printer can create Catholic wedding programs to match your wedding theme. Minted, Zola, Artifact Uprising, and Zazzle are also great options if you want to create your own custom program.

Many couples keep their wedding program as a keepsake and either frame it or tuck it away along with any other mementos of the day. Also, make sure your photographer gets a copy to include in some detail shots!

How to Choose the Perfect Catholic Wedding Gift: A Timeless Expression of Love and Faith

A Catholic wedding is a sacred union, a celebration of love and faith intertwining in a beautiful covenant. As you join in the joyous occasion of a loved one's wedding, you have the opportunity to commemorate this significant milestone with a meaningful Catholic wedding gift . At the Catholic Faith Store, we offer a carefully curated selection of gifts that embody the essence of love, spirituality, and devotion. Join us as we explore the art of choosing the perfect Catholic wedding gift and offer guidance to help you make a cherished and lasting impression.

Embrace Sacred Symbols:

When selecting a Catholic wedding gift, consider gifts that embrace sacred symbols, resonating with the couple's faith and spiritual journey. A beautifully crafted crucifix or a delicate pendant featuring a patron saint can serve as constant reminders of God's presence and blessings within their marriage. Our collection includes a wide range of religious jewelry and sacramental gifts, each imbued with timeless symbolism and deep spiritual significance.

Cherish Sacramental Treasures:

Sacramental treasures make for extraordinary Catholic wedding gifts, encapsulating the sanctity of the marriage covenant. A personalized Bible or a set of elegant rosary beads can become cherished heirlooms, fostering the couple's spiritual life together. Such gifts not only celebrate their commitment to one another but also provide a foundation for them to grow in faith and unity as they embark on this sacred journey.

Inspire Spiritual Nurturing:

Encourage the newlyweds to nurture their spiritual life with gifts that inspire and uplift their faith. A devotional book or a beautifully illustrated prayer journal can accompany them on their spiritual path, providing guidance, inspiration, and a space for reflection. Additionally, consider gifting a captivating piece of religious artwork for their home, creating an environment that reflects their shared commitment to God and His divine love.

Personalize with Love:

For a truly heartfelt touch, consider personalizing the Catholic wedding gift with the couple's names, wedding date, or a special message. Personalization adds an extra layer of meaning and creates a lasting keepsake that commemorates their union. Many of our gifts can be personalized, including engraved jewelry or specially designed photo frames. Let your gift be a tangible representation of the love and joy that surrounds their sacred bond.

Practical and Meaningful:

While sentimentality is paramount, also consider the practicality and everyday usefulness of the gift. A set of fine-quality sacramental candles or a Catholic home blessing kit can serve as both functional and meaningful additions to their new household. Practical gifts that enhance their spiritual life and integrate seamlessly into their daily routines will be appreciated and treasured for years to come.

As you embark on the journey of choosing the perfect Catholic wedding gift, let love, faith, and thoughtfulness guide your selection. The Catholic Faith Store offers a range of timeless gifts that embody the beauty of the Catholic faith, allowing you to express your heartfelt wishes for the couple's journey together. May your chosen gift serve as a beacon of love, inspire their spiritual growth, and become a cherished symbol of their enduring commitment. With careful consideration and the guidance of the Holy Spirit, you can create a truly memorable and meaningful gift that reflects the sacredness of their Catholic wedding day.

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Catholic Wedding Songs For A Mass Ceremony & Reception

For those who embrace Christianity, there is no more solemn and sacred commitment than marriage. Faith and love are intertwined in the Catholic faith.

As you approach your wedding day, you will want to reflect on songs that celebrate your devotion to both God and your partner. Discover Catholic wedding songs that will set the reverent tone desired for your special day.

The actual wedding ceremony itself is the most sacred part of your wedding. For the ceremony, you will likely want to stick with traditional Catholic liturgical music which evokes a sense of worship and religious devotion.

The church stresses the solemnity and reverence of a wedding ceremony, so popular music is generally not allowed. Your choices will need to be limited to songs from the Catholic canon, and you’ll need certain ones for certain portions of the ceremony. Here are some suggestions for each stage of the Catholic marriage rite.

Catholic Wedding Music Guide

The processional.

“In Christ Alone” is a beautiful choice for your wedding processional. It has a very modern feel that will appeal to a beautiful modern bride. No one ever said your music choices had to be older hymns that are hard for young people to relate to.

Choosing “In Christ Alone” is especially wonderful if you have chosen to use live instruments in your wedding. This song was written especially for the violin, and it fills the hall with a glorious melody that will uplift the hearts of your guests.

In Christ Alone – Passion feat. Kristian Stanfill

Released in 2013 on the album Passion: Let The Future Begin

The Gathering Song

The Gathering Song is a moment when all of the guests at your wedding can raise their voices in celebration of God’s blessing upon your wedding vows. This song is generally a beautiful hymn, and “Love Divine, All Loves Excelling” is a glorious composition that honors the holy nature of the day.

Love Divine, All Loves Excelling – Rowland H. Pritchard & Charles Wesley

Released in 2012 on the album Journeysongs Third Edition: Volume 23

“Love Divine, All Loves Excelling” was written by Charles Wesley in 1747. The use of minor chords in the song gives it a sacred feel. The song speaks of perfecting one’s self through the love of Christ, and it reflects the desire you and your partner have to make one another better people.

The Psalm is the only song that will be used in your Catholic wedding ceremony that you will not choose. It is chosen for you by the church, and it is a reflection of the wisdom that your priest wishes to offer you on this special day of your wedding.

The song is a response, meaning that the guests at your wedding will sing it. Some of the Psalms that are commonly used during the ceremony are:

Psalm 112 – Blessed is the Man Who Greatly Delights in the Lord’s Commands Psalm 145 – How Good is the Lord to All Psalm 34 – I Will Bless the Lord at All Times

The Presentation of the Gifts

“Make Me a Channel of Your Peace” is a beautiful selection for this part of the ceremony. The lyrics of this song are actually a prayer by St. Francis of Assisi. They speak of humility and service to God and your partner. The message of this song is to live in a spirit of service to those around you, and to your partner most of all.

Make Me a Channel of Your Peace – Susan Boyle

Released in 2010 on the album The Gift

You can certainly use a modern recording of “Make Me a Channel of Your Peace” in your Catholic wedding. The song has been performed by Susan Boyle and other artists. It can be found performed by children’s choirs as well as individuals. Choose the version that warms your heart.

Communion is one of the most important parts of a Catholic wedding ceremony. This is the first time that you and your partner will receive the Holy Communion as man and wife. There are a few choices here that will make the moment special.

“On Eagle’s Wings” has been used at wedding Communion ceremonies for many years. It is even likely that a member of your own family may have used the song at their wedding. The traditional nature of the song appeals to many brides and grooms who want to preserve the sanctity of the marriage ceremony. Based on classic passages from the Bible, this song has been recorded by Josh Groban and others.

On Eagle’s Wings – Kitty Cleveland

Released in 2007 on the album Be Not Afraid

“Amazing Grace” is another traditional hymn that is often used for Communion. It may seem a bit dated to some, but the lyrics are still powerful enough to create a sense of prayerful reverence and express one’s religious devotion.

Amazing Grace – Elvis Presley

Released in 2071 on the album He Touched Me

If you are fortunate enough to have a choir for your wedding, “O God Beyond All Praising” can make a wonderful Communion hymn. It is best when performed by an ensemble of voices that will resonate throughout the sanctuary.

O God Beyond All Praising – Focus feat. Sarah Kroger

Released in 2016 on the album Origin (A Beauty Initiative Within Focus)

The Reflection Song

This is a time of the ceremony to pause and let the feelings of the day sink in. As such, “Be Thou My Vision” is a wonderful choice. It has been recorded by everyone from Van Morrison to Audrey Assad. You can even find the song in different tempos to suit your own preference.

Be Thou My Vision – Audrey Assad

Released in 2016 on the album Inheritance

“Be Thou My Vision” is an Irish hymn that is based on an old Middle Irish piece of poetry. It speaks of commitment, and your commitment to God is a symbol of the devotion you should share with your partner. All of your guests will recall their own sacred wedding vows as they join in singing this song.

The Recessional

A good song to exit the church following your wedding is “Ode to Joy” by Beethoven. It has the proper sense of conclusion and a vibrant tempo that indicates celebration. It is not too fast, but it is uplifting. This is the time to exchange the tears of joy for a winning smile as you and your partner make your way back up the aisle past your supportive friends and family.

“Ode to Joy” from Beethoven Symphony 9 – Barrymore Chamber Orchestra

Released in 2008 on the album “Ode to Joy” Beethoven, Bach, Mozart, Pachelbel

“Ode to Joy” can be found in modern arrangements, but you will likely want to stick with the performance of a grand orchestra here. The music should swell and fill the sanctuary, just as your heart is filled with love for your spouse.

Other Religious Wedding Songs To Consider

It is important to remember that a Catholic wedding ceremony is different from the ceremonies many people are used to. The use of the traditional wedding march is not permitted because it was composed of secular use in the theater. Portions of the ceremony are very structured, offering less flexibility than a secular wedding.

Nevertheless, there are plenty of opportunities for you to use music that touches your heart. Select songs and hymns that are valued by you and your spouse, ones that reflect your own beliefs about the role of family and faith in your marriage.

After your beautiful Catholic wedding ceremony is complete there are still plenty of opportunities for song selection. Your reception is a great time to choose Christian wedding songs that are perhaps more timely than the hymns you chose for the processional, Communion, and other portions of your ceremony. Here is a list of songs that combine expressions of love and Christian faith.

You Raise Me Up – Josh Groban

Released in 2003 on the album Closer

This is such a perfect song for a Catholic wedding reception. It is great for the first dance with your new spouse. “You Raise Me Up” was recorded by Josh Groban and released on his 2003 album Closer. It has become a modern classic and is one of the most requested songs in Groban’s catalog.

The song speaks of how the presence of another in our lives makes us better people, and it carries the same message about a personal relationship with God. Marriage in the Christian faith is very symbolic of the completeness that comes when we embrace the love that Christ has for His Church.

Angel – Casting Crowns

Released in 2011 on the album Come To The Well

Casting Crowns scored a hit with “Angel” in 2011. It speaks of that moment when your life changed upon seeing your partner for the first time. The song also makes a strong acknowledgment that God has led you to the one that is right for you.

“Angel” is suitable for a first dance, but it also fits nicely into the mix of songs that are played throughout the reception. Many couples have also used this song to walk into their reception following the ceremony.

With Arms Wide Open – Creed

Released in 2000 on the album Human Clay

Creed was known for finding unique ways to slip a Christian influence into their popular music. Defined by the powerful vocals of Scott Stapp, “With Arms Wide Open” is a celebration of true love. It reminds us of our vulnerabilities and brings the hope of trust that is a necessary part of any marriage.

The song has a modern vibe that many young Christian couples will appreciate. It is a nice contrast to the formality of other songs that will likely find a place in your wedding reception.

Because You Loved Me – Celine Dion

Released in 1996 on the album Falling into You

Celine Dion belongs on any list of wedding songs, Christian or otherwise. Her songs of love are legendary, and this is one of the best. “Because You Loved Me” was released in 1996. While many focus on the message here from one lover to another there is also a subtle spiritual context.

When you find the perfect partner your sense of worthiness blooms like flowers in May. The same can be said when one accepts that the love of God changes them for the better. No longer do we feel inadequate and unworthy of love.

Father’s Love – Bob Carlisle

Released in 1995 on the album Simply Bob Carlisle

The emotional songs of Bob Carlisle are another good choice for Catholic wedding receptions. There will be a song needed for the bride’s dance with her father, and they don’t come much better than this one.

God’s love is precisely like that of a father. Your father is there to pick you up and dust you off when you fall, to love you unconditionally, and to provide a stabilizing influence in this crazy world. Honor him with this poignant song at your wedding.

I Swear – John Michael Montgomery

Released in 1994 on the album Kickin’ It Up

“I Swear” was first recorded by country artist John Michael Montgomery in 1994. The song reached a more mainstream audience when All-4-One covered it in 2005. Weddings are about commitment, and this slow song sums up the vows you took in your wedding ceremony.

The song works well for receptions because every married couple or pair of sweethearts in attendance will be able to relate. They will be able to share the joy of your wedding and recall their own devotion to the one they love.

The Marriage Prayer – John Waller

Released in 2011 on the album As for Me and My House

Don’t forget to include some traditional Christian fare in your wedding reception music selection. It will remind your guests and your partner that the solemnity of the day is not lost on you. “The Marriage Prayer” is a heartfelt composition that invokes the blessing of God on your union.

There may not be much dancing during this song, but that is okay. It is best enjoyed in moments of quiet reflection. The song is one that will come to mind each year as you celebrate another anniversary.

I’m In Love With You – Fred Hammond

Released in 2012 on the album God, Love & Romance

Those who have a strong faith know that popular music can also be wholesome. “I’m In Love With You” is Fred Hammond’s 2012 ode to the purity of love. No one can come close to the person you have chosen to spend your life with when it comes to filling your soul with joy. This song celebrates that awareness.

The best Christian wedding songs are the ones that let you look deep into your partner’s eyes and know that there really is a meant-to-be. This one will remind you that God knows what is best and that He joins those who trust in His guidance.

I Can Only Imagine – MercyMe

Released in 1999 on the album The Worship Project

The best-selling contemporary Christian song of all time certainly deserves a place at your wedding reception. This song by MercyMe has touched people all over the world. Remember, you should not neglect the spiritual side of the day. Play this one to let everyone pause for a moment of adoration and worship.

Isn’t it wonderful to know that someday you will rejoin your spouse in the presence of Jesus? That bedrock of the Christian faith should help you move through each day with sublime joy and happiness.

Bless The Broken Road – Rascal Flatts

Released in 2004 on the album Feels Like Today

There are a lot of twists and turns on the road to true love. Play this song by Rascal Flatts and think about all of the steps that had to fall just right to put you in this magical moment. How could anyone think that God doesn’t play a role in the affairs of those who serve Him?

Everything that you have been through only serves to bring someone special into your life. “Bless The Broken Road” will remind you that all the struggle was worth it.

Non-Traditional Catholic Hits

Above we discussed Catholic wedding songs for both your Christian ceremony and your reception. It is also the desire of many couples to include some wholesome popular music on their wedding day. Popular music can be a very welcome addition, and many modern love songs reflect the spiritual values that you find to be meaningful and important. Here are some Christian wedding songs to complete the celebration of starting a new life with your partner.

All of Me – John Legend

Released in 2013 on the album Love in the Future

True love is the complete giving of oneself to another. “All of Me” by John Legend sums up this awareness in a poignant and moving way. Legend released it as the breakthrough single from his 2013 album Love in the Future. When one listens carefully to the lyrics it isn’t hard to see a spiritual connection.

“All of Me” is about loving someone unconditionally despite their flaws, just like Jesus loves all His children. The person you choose to spend the rest of your life with is one that will help you realize that the perfectly imperfect you are a miracle of creation.

I Will Be Here – Steven Curtis Chapman

Released in 1999 on the album More to This Life

Steven Curtis Chapman is one of the most successful Christian artists the world has ever known. His song “I Will Be Here” resonates with a promise of lasting love. It is a melody of devotion through the good times and the bad.

The song reflects the importance of your wedding vows. For better or worse, in sickness and in health. Let the lyrics to this song inspire you on your wedding day to be a spouse who will stand beside a partner through thick and thin.

Thank God I Got Her – Jonny Diaz

Released in 2014 on the album Let It Fly

As you prepare to marry your soulmate this song will help you express thankfulness that God brought the two of you together. It was recorded in 2014 by Jonny Diaz for Let It Fly. A strong marriage should be based on the firm knowledge that there are no accidents in God’s plan. Everything is carried out with purpose.

Grooms need special songs for their wedding reception, too. This is one that uplifts the heart and soul. The song powerfully reminds everyone in attendance that the bride is worthy of fairytale love.

For You – Michael W. Smith

Released in 1990 on the album Go West Young Man

This beautiful song from Michael W. Smith is a timeless classic. It was recorded in 1993 but remains one of the most popular Christian love ballads. There is a promise in this song from one man to one woman. That promise is to love and cherish her throughout the years.

Growing old together is the essence of true love. Learning how to live unselfishly for someone else is a part of that growth, and this tune is great for a nice dance with your partner as the wedding festivities come to a close.

Love of My Life – Jim Brickman

Released in 1999 on the album Destiny

People of faith have long appreciated the piano compositions of Jim Brickman. “Love of My Life” is one of his best, and the song has been recorded by everyone from Carly Simon to Pam Tillis. There truly is someone for everyone. The love of a lifetime is what everyone wants and prays for. God has answered that prayer for you.

Many of the songs on this list are slow and will be more suitable to the latter stages of a wedding celebration. These are the moments during your wedding festivities when all you want is to look lovingly into your partner’s eyes and savor the memories of the day.

Marry Me – St. Vincent

Released in 2007 on the album Marry Me

Although it is a secular song, “Marry Me” by St. Vincent is a simple affirmation of the vows you have both agreed to take. It will remind you of that glorious moment when you said yes to your partner’s wedding proposal. Remember how you felt then? You can relive the moment when you play this at your wedding.

The lyrics of this song are very simple, but so is the best wedding music. It has been said that the easiest things are the hardest to say. Sometimes all you need is a reminder that those three little words hold enormous power. The spiritual connection in this song is the one that stresses the sacred nature of marriage.

When God Made You – Newsong

Released in 2003 on the album More Life

Newsong is a wonderful Christian contemporary band that belongs in your selection of wedding music. This is an upbeat tune that can be danced to in a mood of spiritual celebration. It appeared on the group’s album More Life in 2003, and it features a guest vocal by Natalie Grant.

Your partner is a unique soul. This song will inspire you to see them for the first time. As you listen to it, think about all the ways that your partner is a one-of-a-kind miracle of God’s creation.

More Than What I Wanted – CeCe Winans

Released in 2001 on the album CeCe Winans

As a Christian, you surely prayed for God to bring someone special into your life. You probably had a very clear picture of what you expected. Then the right person comes along and you realize that God gave you so much more than you ever thought you would find. It is moments like this that make us conscious of God’s love.

CeCe Winans is the artist on this track, and her lovely voice is a perfect soundtrack for the emotions that you will feel on your wedding day. Remember to breathe deeply and soak in all the love and positive energy that is coming your way.

It is so important to remember that music is a gift from God. Music can express the things that we have trouble saying directly. Know that God wants you to celebrate your marriage with beautiful music.

When you listen with your heart there is a powerful spiritual message that can be found in many modern love songs. God uses those with vocal gifts to impart wisdom, and you should have no problem finding a large selection of Christian wedding songs that will inspire and uplift you.

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One of the perks of being a Catholic wedding photographer is being very familiar with the way a Catholic wedding Mass works and being able to adjust to the unique quirks and scenarios of a Catholic wedding day with ease (check out my previous post about why Catholic brides need a Catholic photographer for their wedding for all the details on that). ANOTHER perk is that I know and can tell you about many of the cool, Catholic wedding Mass traditions you can incorporate into your wedding Mass to make it even more uniquely your own. I learned about a lot of these when I was planning my own wedding back in 2019 and I try to share them with all my Catholic couples! How many times in your life will you get to have a say (to a certain extent) in what happens during the Mass??

Croatian Crucifix (or Marriage Crucifix)

I absolutely love this tradition and incorporated it into my own Catholic wedding Mass! The sacrificial love that the crucifix represents is a perfect representation for the vocation of marriage. It’s called the marriage crucifix vs. a wedding crucifix because it’s a reminder of the lasting covenant the couple is entering into, not just a wedding day.

I tell my couples who plan on incorporating this tradition to begin by picking out a crucifix that they would like as the family crucifix in their home. During the wedding Mass, as the couple approaches the altar, the priest blesses the crucifix and says to the couple, “You have found your cross and it is a cross to be loved, to be carried, a cross not to be thrown away, but to be cherished.” Then, during the exchange of vows, the groom holds the crucifix in his right hand and the bride places her right hand on the top of the crucifix uniting their hands together as they say their vows.

St. Augustine said the cross is a “marriage bed [in which Christ] united himself with [His bride, the Church].” This centuries old tradition is linked back to a small town in Bosnia-Herzegovina called Siroki-Brijeg, which reportedly remains the only place in the world with a 0% divorce rate. It’s not necessary to include in your wedding, but it is certainly beautiful and a meaningful way to begin your marriage.

Bringing flowers or praying a consecration prayer during the Catholic Wedding Mass to Mary

In some places it is customary for the bride (or the bride and groom together) to place a bouquet of flowers before a statue or shrine to the Virgin Mary (assuming one is present in the Church). This is fairly common among the parishes in my diocese (maybe it’s not in yours!). During your Catholic wedding Mass, this happens after Holy Communion, and the Ave Maria or Salve will be sung while the couple prays in front of the statue.

This tradition recognizes the special role that Mary has as the mother not only of God, but of the Church and all the faithful (see Catechism of the Catholic Church 963-965 ). It is natural, then, to request that Mary pray for you as you begin your own family. Some couples I know will do a Marian consecration leading up to their wedding day, and pray the final consecration prayer during this time.

You can also opt to honor your own mothers by taking a flower from the bouquet and handing it to your mother and thanking her for her motherhood and all the ways she helped you get to this moment in your life!

Consecration and/or flowers to St. Joseph, Holy Family, etc

Similarly to the Marian flowers, I’ve noticed that it’s become more of a thing for couples to also consecrate themselves/bring flowers to St. Joseph or the Holy Family during their Catholic wedding Mass. St. Joseph is a special patron for many people, and many churches have a statue or shrine dedicated in his honor. It can be as simple or prayerful as you like! Typically it takes place after Holy Communion as well. If you get married on one of St. Joseph’s feast days or the feast of the Holy Family, you might want to incorporate this into your wedding.

If you’re interested in learning more about the Consecration to St. Joseph, check out this website .

Las Arras Matrimoniales

These gold or silver coins are gifted from the wedding godparents (los padrinos y madrinas) or are a set of coins that have been passed down through the family.

During the Mass, the priest blesses the coins and then places them in the husband’s hands first, who then places the coins in his wife’s hands. Then the coins are often dropped to the floor. Typically there are 13 coins exchanged, 12 gold and 1 platinum, thought to represent the 12 months of the year. The extra platinum coin is meant to be shared with the less fortunate. One spouse presents the coins to the other to symbolize the prosperity of the marriage and the shared responsibility of life and finances.

Rosary or Patron Saint medal on bouquet

You can opt to wrap your bouquet with a yours or a family rosary as a way to have Mary by your side on your wedding day, or you can pin a favorite patron saint medal onto the bouquet ribbon. This can be a great alternative for brides getting married at churches who don’t have a statue or shrine of their favorite patron saint!

The wedding lasso rosary, or “El Lasso” is more popular in Mexican, Filipino, and Spanish communities. This tradition dates back to the 14th century and the lasso itself can be a rope, oversized rosary, or a floral rosary. It is a symbol of unity and represents an agreement to share the responsibility of the marriage and raising of a family.

After the couple has exchanged their vows, their wedding sponsors (witnesses) called el padrino and la madrina, place the rosary around the couple’s shoulders, starting with groom’s shoulder and then the bride’s shoulder, to form a figure eight shape. The priest recites a prayer, similar to the following: “Let the union of binding together this rosary of the Blessed Virgin Mary be an inspiration to you both. Remember the holiness necessary to preserve your new family can only be obtained by mutual sacrifice and love.” The couple wears the lasso throughout the remainder of the service. At the end of the ceremony, the lasso is removed by the priest or by the wedding sponsors who placed the lasso around the couple. The figure eight shape of the lasso represents infinity and that there is end to the covenant the couple has entered into.

Other Catholic wedding Mass traditions

First, let me preface these with the fact that you’ll need to chat with the priest celebrating your Mass before you can opt to include them. Some churches might have restrictions in place that don’t allow these traditions or exceptions or your priest might not feel comfortable with them. Always a good idea to check first!

Like any special Mass, your nuptial Mass will have three readings and Psalm: the First reading (with the exception of the Easter Season) will be from the Old Testament, the second reading from the New Testament, and then a reading from one of the four Gospels. The Order for Celebrating Matrimony offers several options from Scripture that particularly express the importance and dignity of marriage. You were probably handed this list by a church lady when you picked out your wedding date or saw them listed in your marriage prep book. However, you may choose to go outside of these options, as long as at least one reading explicitly speaks of Marriage (and it’s okay with your celebrant!). That’s a fun fact that many Catholic brides don’t know! I recommend that if you go this route, that you and your future spouse prayerfully pick out the readings together, that you don’t shy away from the readings that say challenging things necessarily, and that you spend time praying Lectio Divina with the readings you choose leading up to your wedding day. Some of my best friends opted into having the Crucifixion gospel read at their wedding because they wanted to remember the significance of sacrificial love for their marriage.

During Holy Communion, you and your spouse can minister the Precious Blood to each other, even if you aren’t trained as extraordinary ministers. My husband and I were told about this tradition by the priest that celebrated our wedding Mass. We agreed that it was an image of the way we wanted to serve each other in our marriage – “this is My blood, given up for you.” Again, check with your priest if it’s okay with him first!

If you and your spouse to be can’t narrow down to one or two saints to dedicate your marriage to, you can create a personalized litany of saints to be sung during your wedding Mass! Talk to your musician(s) and create a litany with saints that you love and want to pray for you, and have it sung during or after Communion.

At the end of the day, remember that no matter what you want to incorporate into your wedding Mass, it’s important to make sure that your wedding “reflects the Lord’s blessing on your love”, in the words of Pope Francis. Ultimately your wedding day is about the willing renunciation of your own will and the salvation of your soul and your spouse’s. Don’t let the little things stress you and let go of the frustrations with certain church specific restrictions. It’s all preparing you for the long, beautiful cross of marriage!

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The Meaning & Hope in the Assumption of Mary

Aug 15, 2024 by Cheryl Hadley

As we celebrate the Solemnity of the Assumption of Mary, the Church reminds us of her singular role and honors her as the Queen of Heaven, first among the saints. What should Catholics know about the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary?

Two Special Privileges

God chose Our Lady for her role in our salvation, and so preserved her from the stain of original sin when she was conceived in the womb of her mother, St. Ann. Immaculate and free from all sin, Mary was truly "full of grace" when, as a young woman, she conceived Jesus through the Holy Spirit.

Because of her extraordinary role, she was likewise assumed, body and soul, into heaven at the end of her earthly life. The Church proclaims these two remarkable convictions as the Immaculate Conception and the Assumption .

These two privileges of Mary are closely bound to one another. Both reveal Our Lady's significance in our Faith and in salvation history. They are so important to our salvation that the Church has proclaimed them as dogmas - articles of faith we must believe as Catholics. In the United States, the feast days of both the Immaculate Conception (December 8th) and the Assumption (August 15th) are Holy Days of Obligation.

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What do we believe?

The Assumption proclaims that “the Immaculate Mother of God, the ever Virgin Mary, having completed the course of her earthly life, was assumed body and soul into heavenly glory” (Pope Pius XII, Munificentissimus Deus , 44).

After her earthy life was ended, she did not ascend to heaven of her own power, as Jesus did. She was taken up by the power of God.

In fact, the word "assumption" comes from the Latin verb assumere, which means "to take to oneself." It is a fitting name for such a wonderful celebration.

Assumed into heaven, Mary gained a triumph over death that foreshadows our own triumph at the end of time. She now shares in the glory of her Son's Resurrection and anticipates the resurrection of all her children.

Not only that, but she experiences in heaven the union of a glorified body and soul. Our Lady is not a disembodied spirit. She is a complete human person, matter and spirit, reigning as our queen and Christ's partner in the work of salvation.

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How old is our belief in the Assumption?

Though it's one of our oldest holy days, celebrated since the early 5th century, it wasn't until 1950 that Pope Pius XII wrote his apostolic constitution Munificentissimus Deus , declaring the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary, body and soul, into heaven as “divinely revealed dogma,” infallible and beyond doubt.

Pope Pius XII's declaration did not originate the idea of the Assumption of Mary. It reiterated and formalized what the Church had already believed from her earliest days, and her liturgy had already celebrated for 1500 years.

Where is Mary's death in the Bible?

Though we don't read about it in Sacred Scripture, Church Fathers and theologians believe the Virgin Mary died not as a result of original (or any human) sin , from which she was spared by God, but in accord with her Divine Son, Who also experienced death.

As Pope St. John Paul II explained,

Since Christ died, it would be difficult to maintain the contrary for his mother… the mother is not superior to the son who underwent death.” (General Audience, June 25, 1997).

How do we know it's true?

The early Church believed that Mary shared completely in Christ's glory as the Mother of Salvation and the Mother of us all. Through her motherhood, she was in constant union with her divine Son.

From the Incarnation to the Presentation to the Finding of the Child Jesus in the Temple; from His entire hidden life in her home to the first miracle at the Wedding Feast at Cana; from His public ministry to His Passion, Mary was there, sharing in her Son's salvific mission.

In the birth of the Church at Pentecost and the spread of the Church throughout the world, Our Lady was there, remaining in spiritual union with Christ, under the care of John and the other Apostles. She became their spiritual mother in the mission of building the Church and saving souls for her Son.

At every moment of great significance, and in the everyday moments in between, Mary's heart was entirely united to Christ's and she existed in conformity with Him.

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Although the New Testament does not explicitly affirm Mary’s Assumption, it offers a basis for it because it strongly emphasized the Blessed Virgin’s perfect union with Jesus’ destiny. This union, which is manifested, from the time of the Savior’s miraculous conception, in the Mother’s participation in her Son’s mission and especially in her association with His redemptive sacrifice, cannot fail to require a continuation after death. Perfectly united with the life and saving work of Jesus, Mary shares His heavenly destiny in body and soul. – St. John Paul II

Then there is the physical reality of Mary's death. From the earliest days of the Faith, Christians venerated the bodies of the saints, taking them to secure and secret places like the catacombs, guarding and revering them.

As for Mary, there are no bodily relics. Yet, if a tomb were marked with her name and proclaimed her final resting place, especially in the early days of the Church, every Christian would know about it. Pilgrims would have flocked there in veneration and prayer, just to be near the Mother of the Messiah, to honor and petition her.

As Pope Pius XII explains, "the Church has never looked for the bodily relics of the Blessed Virgin, nor proposed them for veneration of the people." This is because the earliest Christians all believed Mary's body was assumed into heaven.

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What does it mean for us?

While Mary's Assumption is a remarkable miracle, it is also representative of our own hopes for eternal glory. Not only do we hope to enter heaven as Our Lady did, but we believe in a physical resurrection where our own souls will one day be reunited to our glorified bodies.

Mary was granted this unique favor through the Assumption, so that the body of the one who was conceived without sin, became the first dwelling place for God, and remained a virgin despite childbirth, would never know decay.

Lord willing, the rest of us will receive our full triumph - and the full effect of Christ's victory over death - when our own souls are reunited with our glorified bodies at the end of time.

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Mary became the new Eve, whose obedience helps repair our relationship with God the Father. She opened heaven for all of us, just as she opened the world to the presence of the Messiah through her "yes" to the Incarnation.

Through the superabundant grace of God, Mary continues to share in Christ's mission and purpose. She also possesses what belongs to her Son, so that her glorified presence as the Queen of Heaven shines brightly as a beacon of hope for us.

The thought of her empty tomb is a cause of great joy!

The Lord ascended to heaven in order to prepare our eternal home, knowing that the sweetness of home is, of course, the heart of a Mother.

In His generous love, He has ensured that she will be waiting for us, body and soul, when we finally arrive.

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By:Cheryl Hadley
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Bringing Up Your Gifts
Bringing Up Your Gifts. In the planning for weddings and funerals, often several people are invited to "bring up the gifts.". It's a very simple gesture: picking up bread and wine that have been placed on a table somewhere in the area that the congregation is seated, and bringing them forward to present to the priest to be brought to ...
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Generally, two people present the gifts at the altar; however, sometimes a whole family (including children) will serve as gift bearers. Altar servers. Consider inviting children who have been trained as altar servers to fill this role at your wedding; check with the priest or deacon who will be assisting at the wedding first, though.
Presentation of the gifts, preparation of the altar
The presentation of the gifts marks the beginning of the second major part of the Mass, the Liturgy of the Eucharist. This preparation also has been traditionally called the offertory, since the priest prepares the gifts to be offered. Despite the change in name, the essential idea and theology has remained unchanged.
What is the proper procedure for taking the Mass offerings up to the
The procedure for taking the gifts up to the altar to the priest will vary from parish to parish. In the Boston area, usually an usher will choose a family before Sunday Mass starts and ask them to bring the gifts up to the altar and the priest, at the appropriate time. When your family, (you and your daughters) bring up the gifts, your family ...
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Option C (#198) Show favor to our supplications, 0 Lord, and receive with a kindly countenance. the oblations we offer for these your servants, joined now in a holy covenant, that through these mysteries. they may be strengthened in love for one another and for you. Through Christ our Lord.
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Amazing songs that are popular in the Catholic community. Ode to Joy, L. Beethoven. An easily recognizable tune, this classic has religious lyrics and flexible instrumentation. La Rejouissance, Handel. This song has the right jubilant tempo for a wedding recessional. The tune works best played by instrumentalists.
The Preparation of the Gifts and the Altar, Part II
The celebrant may acknowledge those who presented the gifts with a bow of the head. Those who presented gifts would bow to the celebrant before departing. When all the gifts have been presented, the celebrant should have nothing in his hands. If standing before the altar and facing the people, the celebrant turns to his right with hands joined ...
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Cross Bracelet And Colored Beads. Etsy | $22.75. This cross bracelet and colored beads are one of the most catholic wedding gifts that express your love and faith. The bracelet is made of stainless steel and has a cross and beads with different meanings. It's a wonderful gift for a catholic couple.
17 Catholic Wedding Traditions and Rituals, Explained
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A Catholic wedding is a sacred union, a celebration of love and faith intertwining in a beautiful covenant. As you join in the joyous occasion of a loved one's wedding, you have the opportunity to commemorate this significant milestone with a meaningful Catholic wedding gift.At the Catholic Faith Store, we offer a carefully curated selection of gifts that embody the essence of love ...
Catholic Wedding Songs For A Mass Ceremony & Reception
The Presentation of the Gifts "Make Me a Channel of Your Peace" is a beautiful selection for this part of the ceremony. The lyrics of this song are actually a prayer by St. Francis of Assisi. ... After your beautiful Catholic wedding ceremony is complete there are still plenty of opportunities for song selection. Your reception is a great ...
Catholic Wedding Mass Traditions You'll Want to Include in Your Wedding
Consecration and/or flowers to St. Joseph, Holy Family, etc. Similarly to the Marian flowers, I've noticed that it's become more of a thing for couples to also consecrate themselves/bring flowers to St. Joseph or the Holy Family during their Catholic wedding Mass. St. Joseph is a special patron for many people, and many churches have a statue or shrine dedicated in his honor.
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Imagine your own wedding with the music you want. The only real rules is that the music is church appropriate and follow the teachings of the Catholic Church. e.g. Don't expect Marvin Gaye's "Lets get it On" to fly in a Church for Communion. Any other "this is more suited for a quiencenera" noise is the preference of that musician ...
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